THE LIVING FREE FINDING LOVE PROGRAM

What does finding “real love” look like to you?

Is it feeling safe, accepted and loved just as you are?

  • A partner who is loyal, able to compromise and communicate openly?

  • Experiencing peace in your relationship because your partner consistently shows up for you?

  • A partner who encourages your growth and who also gives you space to be your own person?

  • Someone who loves you so much they know the worst day with you is better than the best day without you?

Imagine…

  • Being free of anything that’s holding you back from being totally emotionally available to a new partner.

  • Being able to hold and express clear boundaries so you can reclaim your energy and feel respected in your relationships.

  • Feeling confident in your ability to meet a good partner and show up in a healthy way.

  • Knowing how to break the cycle of bad relationships so you can experience the love you deserve.

All of this is possible for you, regardless of your past relationship history. And you don’t have to wait years and years (or sit through dozens of therapy sessions) to have it. 

This may not be your reality yet — but it can be soon.

Lindsay O'Brien | The Real Love Alchemist

Before I break it down for you, let me introduce myself.

My name is Lindsay O’Brien and after experiencing toxic relationships I finally figured out how to break the cycle and find my “person.”

Now, I’ve dedicated my life to helping you do the same.

My passion is getting to subconscious source of unhealthy relationship patterns and helping you find the real love you’re always wanted but didn’t know how to get.

Lindsay O'Brien | The Real Love Alchemist

I kept getting into the same relationship over and over again with different men.

In particular, men who were emotionally unavailable and blamed me for everything. It felt like all I was attracting was this particular brand of pain in my relationships. I honestly thought the universe was trying to teach me a lesson (it wasn’t) or healthy love just wasn’t available for someone like me (so not true).

The real reason? I had subconscious issues I was carrying around that were making me choose those types of men. It was what I was familiar with. And most of all, I was scared to death of real intimacy. When a healthy guy came my way, I ran.

After a divorce and an abusive relationship, I hit rock bottom and decided I was ready to heal and face my fears.

Once I focused on shifting the specific patterns in my subconscious that were holding me back from healthy love and keeping me attracted to unhealthy relationship patterns, I was able to move on from my exes and create my dream relationship with a partner who brings me flowers just because and tells me he loves me every day.

I now use this powerful subconscious work combined with my knowledge of the healing journey to guide my clients through their own transformations and into healthy love.

WELCOME TO THE

Living Free Finding Love Program!

Living Free Finding Love is an intimate, 1:1 experience for those who are motivated to heal, break bad relationship patterns, and find real love.

“If I could have done this years ago to save me a lot of time and anguish, I would have.”

“I didn’t know if the program would be enough or if it would be worth the money… I didn’t know if some of the techniques would work on me…if I could have done this years ago to save me a lot of time and anguish, I would have. Lindsay knows what she’s doing and it works even if you don’t understand how or why. If you’re skeptical, but you’re desperate to stop the bad relationship pattern and want to find a healthy relationship, I would definitely recommend hiring Lindsay.”

Here’s How it Works:

  • Pre-Session Assessment

    (To help me create your custom plan)

    Before we jump into our work together, you’ll complete a pre-session assessment that will identify the main areas you need support with. I’ll create a custom action plan based on your answers so you get specific support for exactly what you need help with.

  • 1:1 Support-Combined Coaching & Energy Healing Calls

    (For personalized solutions and coaching)

    Private 1:1 coaching/energy healing combo sessions where together we will find and give you the opportunity to release the emotional energies and subconscious blocks that are holding you back from healing and finding real love. You’ll see powerful changes taking place in between sessions. I also answer all your questions and give you specific strategies for each step on your journey to real love.

  • Homework & Resources

    As you go through the program, you’ll receive homework assignments outside of our calls so you can maximize the results of your investment. You’ll also get access to all my resources and checklists to help you learn what to look for (and what to avoid) when dating.

  • The Real Love Reboot

    Deprogramming + Emotional Healing + Opening Your Heart

    Did you know that there’s a 3-step formula to finding real love? After years of working through my own toxic relationships and helping other clients do the same, I’ve discovered it — and in this program, you get to see the Real Love Reboot in action.

  • Lifetime Access to the Living Free Finding Love Online Course

    In addition to 1:1 coaching, you get lifetime access to my supplemental Living Free Finding Love online course. This is where you’ll get access to all the guided meditations, homework assignments and resources.

  • SOS Support

    Message me Monday-Friday from 9am-6pm between sessions to get guidance on whatever comes up in the moment. This will prevent a small issue from snowballing into a bigger one and ensure you stay on track no matter what happens.

How Chelsea went from toxic relationships to Real love

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For the Amazing Clients I’ve Worked With, Bad Relationships Are a Distant Memory.

These are just a few examples of the results you get once you go through my program and experience the magic of subconscious work.

“Working with you has been one of the greatest decisions I could have ever made for myself. I am becoming a whole new person and able to release things I never thought were possible to move on from. I feel so much lighter and the future looks so much brighter.” — S.R.

“Last night I was sitting at my boyfriend’s house, realizing just how happy I am now that I’m in a real, honest and healthy relationship. I couldn’t have done this without Lindsay. Before this I had married my ex-husband twice, I had tried everything to make it work and I never felt good enough. He made me feel needy, made me feel invisible, and unless he wanted something from me I never got my needs met. Emotionally, mentally, etc.

I allowed myself to stay in that relationship for far too long. Had I known Lindsay back then I probably wouldn’t have married him a second time but everything happens for a reason. I never thought I’d be where I am today and be in this kind of a relationship. Thanks to Lindsay I was able to see red flags, know the signs of a healthy relationship and allow myself to move forward.” — K.E.

“I’ve read so much material (books, articles etc.) over the past 10 years or so. Working with you was absolutely the game-changer. Thank you for everything. I’m so glad we connected.” — M.C

You’ll also get..

  • Clarity

    You’ll know exactly what happened in your last relationship so you can leave the past behind you.

  • Peace

    The full body relaxation that comes from releasing your emotional baggage and subconscious blocks- finally you can feel safe and grounded in your body and at home with yourself.

  • Confidence

    Boost your confidence, self-love and self-worth so you can date as your best self.

  • Knowledge

    Know how to create that healthy, loving relationship you’ve dreamed of so you can find an amazing partner.

Let me walk you through The Real Love Reboot…

After working with so many different clients and coming out the other side of my own experiences, I discovered the 3-step process to creating healthy love: Deprogramming, Emotional Healing and Opening Your Heart.

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Deprogramming

  • You’ll learn how high-conflict personalities (like narcissists) function and why they are highly resistant to change.

  • You’ll understand why things like chemistry, excitement, familiarity and the feelings of things being “right” drove you into a bad relationship.

  • You’ll release negative beliefs you may have picked up on from past relationships like “I’m not good enough” so you can open up to healthy love.

This ensures you’re leaving the past where it belongs- behind you.

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Emotional Healing

  • My powerful energy healing method gets to the origin of any negative emotional energies you’ve been carrying around that are keeping you from letting go of an ex and opening up to heathy love and releases them.

  • Guided meditations release blocks and rewire your subconscious for more positive thought patterns and beliefs regarding love, relationships, and how you view yourself.

  • I boost your self-love so you feel confident, whole, and worthy of receiving healthy love.

This alleviates the pain and heartache from previous relationships AND from your past that contributed to getting into those relationships in the first place.

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Opening Your Heart

  • You’ll learn how to create healthy relationships and how to date to avoid toxic relationships and unavailable partners.

  • You’ll learn how to resolve conflict in a healthy way so you’ll know what to do when one comes up.

  • You’ll also learn how to establish healthy relationship behaviors like setting clear boundaries and communicating effectively.

Once you know how to show up and create healthy relationships, you have everything you need to find real love.

As part of the program, you get lifetime access to the Living Free Finding Love Online Course

Here’s what’s inside:

  • Module 1: Setting You Up For Success

    • Introduction and Orientation

    • How Energy Healing Works

    • Creating a Vision

    • Action Step- Creating Your Vision

    • How the Healing Process Works

    • Guided Meditation for Releasing Blocks to Receiving Love

    • Power Guided Meditation for Feeling Worthy of Real Love

    • Daily Habits to Maximize Your Healing

    • Guided Meditation for Spiritual Awakening

  • Module 2: Deprogramming

    • Deprogramming Introduction

    • EFT for Feeling Rejected and Abandoned

    • How High Conflict Personalities Function and Why They Are Highly Resistant to Change

    • The Abuse Cycle

    • Debunking Negative Beliefs

    • How To Set Clear Boundaries

    • Guided Meditation for Boundaries

    • Boundary Scripts

  • Module 3: Emotional Healing

    • How To Move Through Challenging Emotions

    • EFT For Feeling Unworthy of Love

    • Breathing Exercise to Calm the Nervous System

    • Meditation for Moving Through Challenging Emotions

    • Guided Meditation for Releasing Stress

    • Daily Meditation Practice for Self-Forgiveness

    • Getting Your Confidence Back and Loving Yourself

    • Guided Meditation for Releasing the Feeling of Not Being Good Enough

    • Power Guided Meditation for Feeling Lovable

    • Guided Meditation for Healing

    • Guided Meditation for Letting Go of a Previous Relationship

    • EFT for Betrayal

    • Guided Meditation for Self-Love

    • Guided Meditation for Letting Go of Burdens from an Old Relationship

  • Module 4: Navigating the Dating Landscape

    • Why We Get Into Toxic Relationships

    • EFT for Allowing Love

    • Mindset Shifts for Dating

    • EFT for Feeling Like You’ll Never Find Love

    • Guided Meditation for Visualizing a Healthy Relationship

    • How To Use Dating Apps

    • How To Spot Emotional Unavailability from a Dating Profile

    • How To Create an Online Dating Profile That Gets You Noticed

    • The Healthy Pace of Dating

    • Dating Red Flags

    • Signs of Emotional Unavailability

    • Healthy Relationship Behaviors

    • Guided Meditation for Releasing Blocks to Trusting the Right People

    • Power Guided Meditation for Letting People in and Trusting Them

    • EFT for the Fear of Expressing Your Emotions

  • Module 5: Creating a Healthy Relationship

    • How To Have a Healthy Relationship

    • How To Communicate Like a Pro

    • Expressing Healthy Disappointment Scripts

    • How To Resolve Conflict

    • How To Apologize

    • How To Cultivate Intimacy

Lindsay O'Brien | The Real Love Alchemist

Let’s start the healing!

Here’s what you’ll get in the Living Free Finding Love Program

  • Twelve (12) 1:1 60-minute coaching and energy healing sessions ($2,160 value)

  • Lifetime access to the Living Free Finding Love online course ($1,100 value)

  • Unlimited text support in between sessions ($1500 value)

    Total value: $4,760

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Plus a new bonus!

Break Free from Abandonment Fears

2 bonus guided meditations to help you release the fear of abandonment included when you sign up for The Living Free Finding Love Program

These guided meditations are for you if…

  • You’ve been abandoned in the past

  • You’re hyper self-reliant

  • You push people away before they get too close

  • You have people pleasing patterns

  • You get attached quickly

  • You’ve never felt relaxed in a relationship

Get ready to release your fears of being abandoned and feel safe and secure with a partner.

“A few weeks after I finished the 12-week Living Free Finding Love program with Lindsay O’Brien, something crazy happened. I fell in love! With someone who fell in love with me too, in the most unimaginable way.

Every day I am waking up to this new reality in awe and wonder. I imagine there is some magic to the work you do Lindsay, otherwise, I don't know how this could have happened. My heart was closed for so long and now it's opening up like a flower.” -C.D.

The Living Free Finding Love Program

PRICING + PAYMENT PLANS

1 payment of $3900

Pay in Full (Includes a surprise welcome gift)

6 monthly payments of $650.00

Super flexible payment plan

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Frequently
Asked Questions

  • Many coaches work on the conscious level only, which is great when you don’t have deeper blocks. But let’s face it, you didn’t consciously choose to experience bad relationships so why would only conscious level tools work to help you recover from one? That’s why I have trained in and focus on releasing the subconscious emotional energies and blocks which is infinitely more powerful. This has been successful with every single one of my clients who often tell me they feel like a new person at the end of the program.

  • I want you to be excited about the healing and transformation you are about to undergo. I expect you to be ready for change and invest 30 minutes of your time daily (more if you want) during our work together. I will cheer you on, give you my 100% and believe in you but I can’t do the work for you. You have to be all-in and take responsibility for your transformation.

  • I am not a licensed therapist so no, this is not therapy. I am a coach and certified energy healing practitioner. What I don’t do: I will NOT delve into the past and talk about it for hours while doing nothing about it.

  • We can do them weekly or space them out however you’d like. You’re guaranteed 12 sessions no matter what.

  • The real changes you’re looking for won’t happen in just one session. For that reason, I only offer one-off energy healing and mentoring sessions after you’ve gone through one of my programs. That being said, I understand not everyone is ready to dive into a 12-week program which is a significant investment. If you’d like to get a taste of what it’s like to work with me before investing in a longer program, check out The Ex Detox.

  • If you are experiencing significant emotional distress to the point of wanting to harm others or yourself, this program would not be a good fit. If this is you, seek medical care immediately.

  • Since this is a 1:1 program, I’m unable to offer a refund for sessions that were completed. If you can’t finish the program for any reason, let me know and I may be able to offer a partial refund for any remaining 1:1 sessions. If a refund is granted before the program is paid in full, you will lose access to the online course.

    P.S. Now is your time to break free. Don’t let a toxic relationship hold you back from living the life you’ve dreamed of. You deserve peace, happiness, love and freedom.

I’m ready!

If you think the Living Free Finding Love Program is right for you, click here to book a free 30-minute consultation call with me to complete your pre-session assessment and get you signed up.

If you’ve made it this far, it’s because you know deep down that you are only a few steps away from getting the life you want. You’re no longer willing to settle for bad relationship after bad relationship. You’re tired of spending your time, energy and love on someone who doesn’t appreciate it and you’re ready to find the person who can give it back to you in spades. You are ready to take action and empower yourself with transformational work that will change your life for the better.

Disclosure: limited availability

Due to the 1:1 nature of the programs, 1 only work with a handful of clients a month. This ensures you receive all my attention and get the best out of our work together. Prospective clients are added to a waitlist and will be eligible to start the program on the subsequent month. Don’t miss your opportunity to apply when slots are available.

Contact me if you are ready to take action and empower yourself with transformational work that will change your life for the better.