What if the breakup you thought would kill you is actually your ticket to the love you truly deserve?

BREAKUP MENTOR + DATING COACH

Do you resonate with any of these experiences?

✶No matter what you do, you just can’t stop thinking about your ex.

✶Every minute that goes by is a battle with yourself not to text your ex, stalk their social media, not re-read your old text messages together.

✶You can’t focus on anything else, and it’s starting to make you feel obsessive (and a little crazy.)

✶You’re worried that all the horrible things your ex said about you were true.

✶You’re beginning to think maybe YOU were the problem…and that you’ll never be able to have a healthy relationship because of it.

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Or maybe it feels more like this…

✶ Every time you start a new relationship, your partner ends up being cold or distant, saying they’re not ready for something serious, or ghosting and then texting back a month later like nothing happened. You can’t help your undeniable attraction to these partners even though they end up leaving you feeling lonely, unwanted and unloved.

✶ You’ve been so messed up by past relationships that you don’t trust your judgment anymore when it comes to picking a good partner.

✶ You see red flags in every person you meet.

✶ You find yourself asking, “Is there even anyone left?”

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If it felt like I was reading your mind, then you know how frustrating (and painful) dating and relationships can be.

Before you decide you’re ready to give up on love, hold up. It doesn’t have to be like this.

I’m here to help.

Lindsay O'Brien | The Real Love Alchemist

Hi, I’m Lindsay, The Real Love Alchemist.

Breakup Mentor and Dating coach to help you go from bad relationships to relationships to real love with the magic of subconscious work.

I (unfortunately) know a thing or two about bad relationships.

My personal dating history wasn’t pretty. I spent most of my life turning down people who were genuinely interested in me and instead entertained men who were either emotionally unavailable or outright abusive.

It took a double breakup- the ending of my marriage followed by a short but extremely toxic relationship to shake me out of my patterns.

Fortunately, I FINALLY turned this ship around and learned how to do things right and create healthy, loving relationships.

Here’s how I can help

  • The Toxic Relationship Deprogrammer

    Are you new to your healing journey? If so, start here. The Toxic Relationship Deprogrammer is a bundle of three potent video trainings designed to help you stop second-guessing the end of your toxic relationship and start embracing a happier, healthier approach to finding love that lasts.

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  • The Ex Detox

    Obsessing over your ex after the breakup of your toxic relationship? The Ex Detox is designed to boost your self-love and release the emotional energies and negative beliefs that are keeping you from enjoying your life again after a breakup.

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  • The Living Free Finding Love Program

    Ready for a transformative healing experience? The Living Free Finding Love Program is a 1:1 mentorship that includes powerful subconscious work combined with expert personal guidance to help you break bad relationship patterns and learn how to find healthy love.

    apply here

“Working with you has been one of the greatest decisions I could have made for myself.”

– S.R.

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